Archive for June, 2017

I wish I didn’t have to write this blog post. I wish I could write about a happier topic but to help you out and to make sure that you get laid online properly, I need to break the bad news. The sad reality is that drama is everywhere. That’s it. I’ve said it. The cat is out of the bag. You have to remember that if you are hassling with all sorts of drama and bullshit at work and dealing with people’s emotional hang ups in your personal life, you might be thinking that when you join an anonymous online sex matching site that all those drama issues will go away. I really can’t blame you for thinking that way. I really can’t blame you for fantasizing that there is a place in the virtual world that gives you a refuge from drama.

 

Unfortunately, if I told you that such a place exist I would be lying to you. As long as you’re dealing with flesh and blood human beings and not software-driven online adult profiles, there will be drama. People are dramatic by nature. The only difference is that some of us are more dramatic than others. In fact, some of us play such a good game that you would be easily fooled into thinking that we don’t have a sense of drama. But let me just cut through the bullshit. Everybody’s got a sense of drama. Everybody can be dramatic at some point in time.

 

And you need to be prepared for this when using a free adult match maker. You need to wrap your mind around this so you can have a proper game plan when it does erupt, and believe me, it will erupt regardless of how seemingly mature and well-put together the woman that you’re dealing with seems to be. The reality is drama is actually can quite healthy. Why? If you have a healthy ego and you tend to focus on yourself, drama is sure to follow.

 

It’s only when we become so self-absorbed and so selfish that drama takes a disproportionate amount of space in our lives. It tends to corrode and poison all other areas of our lives because we can’t let go of our personal drama. It’s really our way of putting ourselves on centerstage in all our relationships. It’s just our way of shining the emotional spotlight on us. Since this is the real dynamic regarding personal drama then I hope it’s obvious to you that it really can’t be avoided. Regardless of how awesome you think people you’ve met at online dating sites they too also have their drama. So be aware of this whenever you’re searching for a sex match.